Chinese HYMEN

For reasons best known to themselves, though probably having to do with the obsessive valuing of female virginity, the Chinese have been creating fake hymens for years.



These hymens allow young ladies to trick their husbands, boyfriends or one imagines, clients, into thinking that they are the very first men to dance the ancient dance of intimate congress with the woman in question.



It makes sense. Fake hymens have been all the rage since hymens were invented.

Because many backwards cultures regard women as property and consider fertility something which must be controlled by men, yet they generally tolerate promiscuity among men, there have never been enough hymens to go around.

Ancient tricks like keeping a small vial of blood under the bed in order to fake the bloodletting of the breaking of the hymen have been about for centuries, and in more recent times, hymen reconstruction surgery has allowed women to experience all the joys of having delicate tissues torn open more than once.



Chinese innovation has meant that you no longer have to go under the knife to pretend to be a virgin. For just $15 you can purchase a thin sheet of plastic that goes inside the woman's vaginal canal and contains a little pocket of blood like material which ruptures upon impact and proclaims the user to be a woman of innovation, if not virtue.



It’s hard to be delicate about this product, but I shall try. The Artificial Virginity Hymen is something that could have life-saving uses in parts of the world where women’s sexuality is oppressed, specially in arab world.



I think women's objectification in the Arab world rolls down into being either, good girls/virgins or, bad women/whores.

For more infos about FAKE HYMEN u can visit those links:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2009/oct/28/artificia... http://www.zonaeuropa.com/20051012_1.htm http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/10/05/world/main5364468.s...

VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN

Violence and abuse affect all kinds of people every day. It doesn't matter what race or culture you come from, how much money you have, how old you are, or if you have a disability. Violence does not discriminate.
Abuse can be physical, mental, and emotional. Violence against women in any form is a crime, whether the abuser is a family member; someone you date; a current or past spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend; an acquaintance; or a stranger.

Sometimes it is hard and confusing to admit that you are in an abusive relationship, or to find a way out. There are clear signs to help you know if you are being abused. If the person you love or live with does any of these things to you, it's time to get help:

1-monitors what you're doing all the time

2-constantly accuses you of being unfaithful
3-gets angry when drinking alcohol or using drugs
4-controls how you spend your money
5-humiliates you in front of others
6-destroys your property or things that you care about
7-threatens to hurt you, the children, or pets, or does hurt you (by hitting, beating, pushing, shoving, punching, slapping, or biting)
8-uses or threatens to use a weapon against you
9-forces you to have sex against your will

For more infos please follow this link: http://www.womenshealth.gov/Violence/

RAPE T- Shirts !!!

Alex Dibranco wrote :

Judging by the array of pro-rape T-shirts on the market, assaulting and violating a woman makes a fantastic fashion statement. First, I came across this post on Australian vendors marketing pro-rape T-shirts.

Melinda Tankard Reist has pics for a collection of the shirts, which includes such charming tag-lines as "it's not rape: it's surprise sex," "sometimes no means yes," and "it's not rape if you yell SURPRISE!"

My response to these statements, in order: no it's not, no it doesn't!! People have actually asked online, "I herd its not technically rape if you yell 'SURPRISE' before you do it? is that true?"

I know dumb things get posted on the internet, but really? One sarcastic response: "Yes. Just like before you commmit a murder if you yell 'LOOK OUT HERE I COME ', it is not really murder." It's surprise death! Unfortunately, I quickly discovered that these rape advocacy T-shirts aren't confined to the Land Down Under, and they've been around for a while.

I'm especially fond/frightened of the description for this "sometimes no means yes" shirt from the UK's Lush T-shirts: "In a nightclub, trying to get a girl to go home with you but she says "no". Sometimes that could mean yes ... " The sound of that "dot dot dot" gives me shivers. For more in depressing fashion, Cracked.com has a round up of oh-so-charming rape T-shirts, including " Anti-Abortion! But Pro-Date-Rape" and "NO means YES" .

The blog toomuchtosayformyself.com highlights shirts promoting both rape and violence against women, including "dead women don't say no" (promotes rape, murder, and necrophilia) and "I still miss my ex but my aim is getting better."

The only positive aspect I can find for these shirts is that they warn women to run in the opposite direction when they see a guy wearing one of these charmers. Unfortunately, that doesn't outweigh the damage they do in broadcasting the message that rape is fashionable, funny, and fun -- people hold on to the message without sporting the shirt. And, for the record, rape is one "surprise" that no woman wants.

NO matter what you could face in you' re LIFE ... REMEMBER that you can be just like

FEYROUZ ... number one singer in the arab world

OPRAH WINFREY ... best known for her self-titled

MOTHER THERESA ... a humanitarian and advocate for the poor and helpless people

NAWAL EL SAADAWI ... a world leading feminist and a militant writer on Arab women's problems

VALENTINA TERESHKOVA ... the first women in space

HANADI EL HENDI ... the first female pilot in the KSA, even into the militancy of the saudi society

AND God created Woman ...

By the time the Lord made woman, he was into his Sixth day of working overtime.

An Angel appeared and said: "Why are you spending so much time on this one"?
And the Lord answered and said: "Have you seen the spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have 200 movableparts, all replaceable, run on black coffee and leftovers, have a lap that can hold two children at one time and that disappears when she stands up,have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart, and have six pairs of hands".

The Angel was astounded at the requirements for this one: "Six pairs of hands! No Way!" said the Angel.
The Lord replied, "Oh, it's not the hands that are the problem. It's the three pairs of eyes that mothers must have! And that's just on the standard model"?
The Angel asked about the three pairs of eyes.
The Lord nodded: "Yep, one pair of eyes are to see through the closed door as she asks her children what they are doing even though she alreadyknows. Another pair in the back of her head are to see what she needs to know even though no one thinks she can. And the third pair are here in the front of her head. They are for looking at an errant child and saying that she understands and loves him or her without even saying a single word".

The Angel tried to stop the Lord: "This is too much work for one day, wait until tomorrow to finish".
"But I can't!" The Lord protested, "I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can feed a family on a pound of hamburger and can get a nine year old tostand in the shower".
The Angel moved closer and touched the woman, "But you have made her so soft, Lord".
"She is soft," The Lord agreed, "but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish".

"Will she be able to think"? asked the Angel.
The Lord replied, "Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason and negotiate".

The Angel then noticed something and reached out and touched the woman's cheek, "Oops, it looks like you have a leak with this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one".
"That's not a leak," The Lord objected, "That's a tear"!
"What's the tear for"? the Angel asked.
The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her loneliness, her grief, and her pride".
The Angel was impressed: "You are a genius, Lord. You thought of everything, for women are truly amazing".

Women have strengths that amaze men, they carry children, they carry hardships, they carry burdens but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream, they sing when they want to cry, and they cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous.They fight for what they believe in, they stand up for injustice, they don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution.They go without new shoes so their children can have them, they go to the doctor with a frightened friend.They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards.Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They have sorrow at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.Women come in all sizes, in all colors and shapes.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you.The heart of a woman is what makes the world spin!Women do more than give birth, they bring joy and hope, they give compassion and ideals.Women have a lot to say and a lot to give.

REFERENCE: http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~johnjay/contemplation/importance%20of%20women.htm